"You kissed Spike." Repeating it didn't change that it happened. "You and him kissed. You made out with Spike."

No, the facts still hadn't changed. She stared at him, wondering how to react. How would she react if he'd told her he had made out with a girl? Buffy didn't even know. She took a deep breath, exhaling slowly. "What does that mean? Do you..." She paused, shaking her head. "Are you in love with Spike?" Because everything else aside, that seemed like awful taste. "You could do better. Guy-wise. Not that that matters right now. But yeah."